The following article is taken from a part of the book The Lost Cause Series (What Are You Fighting About?: Birth Control) by James W. Knox. I believe this article is in line with the much debated RH Bill here in the Philippines. I believe both parties are right in some aspects and wrong in some. Thus, we seek to find a balance through the scriptures since most of the grounds of the debate are covered in this area or somewhat related. Permission to re-post the article can be found here.
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| The Lost Cause Series by James W. Knox |
WHAT ARE YOU FIGHTING ABOUT?: BIRTH CONTROL
Turn to Hebrews 13 and 1 Corinthians 7. The matter of the beard may not touch your home, but if you have a family, it won't be long until someone is going to come along and tell you that if you are trusting God and living by faith, you won't take your life into your own hands and practice birth control. You will have babies as often as your wife can conceive.
For such people, the number of babies you produce is the means of determining the extent of your spirituality. Again, the Pharisees want a visible, outward symbol of sanctification in order to proclaim themselves spiritual, regardless of the condition of the heart.
If you believe in your heart that it is God's will for you to have a baby every ten months, and He enables you to perform such a feat, then by all means do so. But do not come into the church house and tell someone that God commanded him or her to do the same, when He did not.
If having a baby every year is a mark that your are spiritual and right with God, then how do you explain the fact that God made some saved women incapable of bearing children? Did God condemn someone to a life of disobedience to the scripture? He wouldn't do that.
You may say, "Why did you kill that man?" "I couldn't help it. God made me a murderer." Well, God did not make you a murderer. God said,
Thou shalt not kill. You are a murderer by choice. You willingly transgressed God's commandment.
Someone says, "I couldn't help it. I committed adultery because God made me commit adultery." No, God said,
Thou shalt not commit adultery. If you commit adultery, you are guilty of willfully transgressing God's word.
If it is sin for a man and woman not to have a baby every time the calendar changes, then God is guilty of sin, for He made some women unable to bear children every year and, in fact, some never.
The reverse argument is also true. Are there unsaved Hindus, Muslims, Roman Catholics and Mormons who turn out babies every year? Of course. Is this an advent testimony of their sanctification? Of course not. Production of children and a right relationship to God have nothing in common.
Now if you want to have twenty-two kids, praise God. Rear them all in church. Rear them all to live for Jesus Christ and to turn the world upside down for Jesus. But don't walk in to church with your twenty-two kids , look down your nose at that woman who is broken-hearted because she can't have a baby, and open your Pharisaical mouth and tell her that if she was right with God, she would have as many kids as you. That is not scriptural.